Dear Colette,
How can you tell when a guy really loves you or if he is just playing around? I want to get married, but my boyfriend of three years keeps telling me he’s not ready.
Tired of Waiting
Dear Tired of Waiting,
Check out the latest book entitled, “He’s Just Not That Into You : The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys” written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Both authors were also writers on the show, Sex in the City, and the advice is solid for women who want to know. In a nutshell, you wouldn’t be waiting if he was really that into you. Create clear boundaries and go after what you want.
