Dear Colette,
Working in Human Resources I’m privy to knowing who has the potential to be laid off. A good friend of mine recently appeared on the list for the next wave of cuts. Since we talk all the time I know she doesn’t have much savings and this will be a huge blow to her. I’m struggling with whether or not to tell her what’s going to happen, but I feel as if I’m being disloyal to my position. What would you do?
In the Know
Dear In the Know,
My heart goes out to you in this situation. There is nothing worse than having information that you know will change someone’s life, but not being able to share it without compromising your commitment to another. The fact that she is such a good friend and without savings is a concern to you, and I’m certain you want to protect her as much as possible. Having said that, you are not responsible for her future, nor is it your place to tell her exactly what’s coming down the pike.